Sex / Trauma / Spirit
Most therapy teaches you to cope with a broken world. I’m not interested in that. I want to help you become who you actually are — and a genuine contributor to the world that needs you.
PHILOSOPHY
“You already hold what you need — your own answers, your own knowing, your own particular way of being whole.”
I work from the belief that you already hold what you need. My job is to see you clearly enough that you can begin to see yourself that way too. People often tell me I have a way of saying things that help them recognize what they already value. I think what’s actually happening is simpler: I’m paying very close attention. To the patterns. To what keeps recurring. To what you almost said. That quality of attention — unhurried, without agenda — is what I bring. You bring everything else.
The goal is not just your own freedom. It is your capacity to love well — to show up for the people in your life, your community, this world, without losing yourself in the process. That is the monastery of the relationship: the ongoing practice of becoming someone who can be truly present for another. The goal is not just your own freedom. It is your capacity to love well — to show up for the people in your life, your community, this world, without losing yourself in the process. That is the monastery of the relationship: the ongoing practice of becoming someone who can be truly present for another.
01
Sex & Eros
You are a sexual being. That isn’t the problem — it may be the most important thing to understand about yourself.
02
Trauma & the Body
It happened. And you survived it — which means you are already someone worth knowing.
03
Spirit & Mystery
You’ve had experiences you don’t have words for. Nothing is wrong with you.
You might belong here
— You’re queer, kinky, polyamorous, or otherwise outside the default settings — and tired of therapists who need you to explain yourself first
— You have a rich inner life — spiritual practice, intense dreams, experiences that don’t fit into ordinary categories
— You’ve done some work already. You’re not starting from zero. You’re ready for depth.
— Your empathy is so strong you feel what isn’t yours — and you’ve quietly wondered if something is wrong with you
— You are mixed, navigating multiple worlds, living between categories that were never designed with you in mind
— You sense that your relationship to love — to yourself and others — is the real work
A consultation is a conversation, not a commitment
Twenty minutes to find out if this is the right fit. I take a small caseload intentionally — so that I’m actually present when we meet.